we’re not obligated to write with someone if we don’t want to.
we have standards and if someone doesn’t meet them, it’s nothing personal. everyone wants the effort they put into their writing given from the other party as well.
bad grammar, bad characterization of a canon muse, an oc in poor taste or anything that doesn’t appeal to a writer is a no-go.
this is a hobby. don’t overwhelm a roleplayer and make tumblr a chore for them. let a writer respond to who they want when they want — it’s their blog and although they cater to you as an audience, their joy is important as well.